" When we recall the past, we usually find it is the simplest things - not the great occasions - that in retrospect give off the greatest glow of happiness "

Bob Hope

Thursday, November 24, 2022

Coming Home

 



     Since leaving home after turning eighteen, I have returned home many times. Some of those trips would leave me scratching my head, counting my blessing and at times hoping I had nine lives like a cat because I just used up one.

     My first time in an airplane was 1965 when I went off to Navy bootcamp when I was eighteen, the plane was propeller driven, jet engines for passenger planes were still a new idea, I flew from Nashville, Tn. to Chicago, Il.. It was an exciting adventure, the first of many. There were three of us from different parts of Tennessee. One boy, from the deep woods of middle Tennessee, sat next to the window and constantly starred at the engines. After a while, the boy sitting next to him asked what he was looking at, while keeping his eyes glued to the engine, he said that he was concerned that the engine would blow up if the pilot didn't shift into a higher gear. Turns out the boy had never seen an airplane up close much less ridden in one. Over the years an airplane brought me home many times, not all of the rides were smooth.

     After my first tour in Vietnam ended, the Navy flew us home in an old four engine, propeller driven, plane. We started off in Da Nang, Vietnam and flew to Subic Bay in the Philippines where we spent the night. The next day we flew to Yokohama, Japan where we refueled then on to the scenic island of Guam where we spent the night. The third day we boarded the plane and flew to the island of Midway where we picked up box lunches and more fuel then we were off to Hawaii for another sleepover. The next day we boarded the plane for the last leg of the trip, destination San Diego, Ca.

     Our pilot was somewhat of a joker. In Guam, he and a few of the other guys loaded up on liquor at the duty-free store, somewhere between Midway and Hawaii he came out of the cockpit holding an empty liquor bottle and feigning being drunk claimed he had finished off his bottle and needed more.

      The next morning we were ready to takeoff on our final leg of the trip. The plane goes rolling down the runway at full speed but just as it should be leaping in to the air the pilot slams on the brakes then taxies back to the other end of the runway, this happens three times. The pilot gets on the intercom and tells us if we would look out the window we would see that the propeller on one engine was not spinning, it seemed that the engine wouldn't start the normal way so they were trying to drag start it, if they couldn't get it going they would have to postpone the trip until repairs were made.

     Well, the engine started on the next attempt and we took off but instead of heading out over the ocean we started circling the airport. After several circles the pilot once again told us that there was a red light on the dashboard that indicated the alternator was not working but he thought it was a faulty light so we were going to circle the airport another time or two. It wasn't long before we headed out over the ocean for our last leg of the trip which was a little over twenty five hundred miles. At maximum speed it would take us at least eleven hours.

     Several hours into the flight, the pilot comes on the intercom again and proudly claims he was right about the light being faulty because it was still out but it didn't matter because we were at the point of no return meaning it was just as far to go back as it was to go forward. We finally landed in the wee hours of the morning.



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     The second time I returned from Vietnam was uneventful and after a few days I got leave to fly home to get Linda and drive back to California. 

     Back in the late 1960's there was a lot of unrest in America and around the world, not everybody was happy with the American way of life. Draft dodgers left the country for Canada and oddly enough there were people who wanted to go to Cuba, a communist country, so they would highjack airliners. Well there I was on plane to Orlando, Fl., it was a night flight and believe it or not there were no more than twenty or so people. There were several men of obvious Spanish decent, I couldn't help but wonder if we were going to land in Orlando or Cuba, the butterflies in my stomach finally went away when I walked off the plane in Orlando and saw Linda waiting.



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     Years later I was returning from a business trip to California, I had to change planes in Dallas, Tx. before flying on to Orlando. The plane was full. We taxied down the runway towards our takeoff point but stopped short behind several other planes, seems there were severe thunderstorms in the area and all planes were held on the ground as a safety precaution. This delay in it's self was not so bad except that it was July in Texas, hot and humid, and we sat there for over an hour waiting for the storms to clear and the pilots decided to conserve fuel so the shut down the engines, there we were, some 150 + passengers and crew sitting in a long cylinder with no ventilation. The pilot finally turned the engines back on but not without the threat of mutiny. 

     The storms calmed long enough to allow us to takeoff but our route would take us into them the line of storms that had just passed over us. The pilot decided to go around the line of storms and get in front of it so we went as far north as Memphis, Tn. before turning south to Orlando but we would still fly through some rough weather so all passengers were told to keep their seat belts on and even the stewardesses were not allowed to get out of their seats. Rough weather was an understatement, I don't know what kept us in the sky, the plane was bouncing all over the place with down drafts and up drafts, it was about forty five minutes before we turned south and the ride smoothed out.

     

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      I was working in New Jersey in the late 1990's, every couple of weeks I would fly home. I took advantage of the Presidents Day weekend to fly home for three or four days. When I arrived at the airport I was put on an earlier flight which was loading then, the flight was full. I was in the middle seat, a cadet from West Point had the window seat and a young woman who worked as an accountant for Jim Henson Productions was in the isle seat.

     The plane was a twin engine Airbus. Once we were loaded a tractor backed us away from the boarding tunnel and the pilot attempted to start the engines. A few moments later the pilot made an announcement that if we would look out the window there was a crew that had the cowling off the engine and were working on it, the pilot told us that we had a bad starter which would be fixed momentarily. T mechanics quickly had the new starter installed and the cowling back in place and the engine was spinning over, this was done to blow out any fuel residues from trying to start it earlier. Now the pilot hit the starter and a bright orange flame about a hundred feet long shot out of the engine, People screamed and someone shouted "we're gonna die". Passengers jumped up from their seats and crowded the isle in total chaos, the stewardesses finally got people to calm down but they were determined to get off the plane they had no confidence.

     The pilot came over the speakers and explained the situation, simply put not all of the fuel was ejected before hitting the starter. The pilot stated that he had some thirty five years experience and he assured us there was nothing wrong with the plane, Finally he said he would go back to the gate and allow anyone to get off but if they expected to get another flight out before next Tuesday they would have a difficult time as this was a national holiday weekend, that last part seemed to calm the nerves.

     In the mean while the cadet bought the pilots explanation but the young woman next to me was still shaking. She looked at me and asked what I was going to do, I told her it was not my time to die and I was going home on that plane, I offered her my hand and told her if it would make her feel better she could hold it, she grabbed it and held on tightly, we were thirty five  thousand feet in the air before she turned loose, there indents in my palm where her nails dug in. 

     Barring the fiasco at the beginning it was a smooth flight.


     These are the most memorable of all the flights I have been on over the years, there were others that had there moments such as fog so dense you couldn't see the runway, winds so strong the plane had to land sideways to the runway and blinding rain but flying is still the safest mode of transportation. 



Leaving The Nest

 




     Being the oldest, I was also the first to leave home. On my eighteenth birthday I signed up for the draft and over the course of the next three weeks reached the decision to join the US Navy, come June twelfth I boarded a plane to bootcamp. 

     I was excited to take my first steps into the unknown world but I don't think Mom and Dad were as ready. It's been a long time but I seem to remember Dad watching me climb the boarding ladder of the plane with a tear in his eye. Mom was looking at him with a smile and I have never been sure if she were smiling at Dad or thinking how much less work she was going to have now that I was gone - one down four to go. Nevertheless, I was gone, out on my own and out of their hair - at least for the next four years.

     Over the next four years I met and married Linda, the girl of my dreams and went to war twice. I came home on leave several times and on my honeymoon. When my leave from bootcamp was over I took a bus to my first duty station and again Mom and Dad took me to the station to see me off, this time I watched from the bus window and Dad really did have a tear in his eye actually several. 

     After my tour in the Navy, Linda and I returned home and continued our life together. We or rather I was up then down then back up and often down again, I hadn't found my place in life. After seven years I sought my fame and fortune in Florida and again Mom and Dad were there to see us off, Dad didn't shed a tear this time but he wasn't too happy about it.

     I found my place in life and over the next forty plus years our home was wherever we happened to be. Visits to the old home place were not as often as Mom and Dad liked but that's the way life is at times.

     It seemed to be a lifetime before we settled down in Georgia, the boys were in grammar school and Linda and I were tired of moving. Georgia turned out to be a good place to settle, everybody was happy.

     Kids leaving home is nothing new, it's expected of them but most don't just up and move hundreds of miles, or more, away but it does happen

     Fast forward about thirty years, Lina has been gone eight years now, MJ is about to turn ten and Mathew will be eight a couple of months later. Danny and Marie are doing well in their jobs and Kay and I are enjoying our life of retirement. Unfortunately, Clay and Maggie didn't last as long as I had hoped but that happens sometimes. 

     After Maggie and Clay split apart, Clay had some problems deciding what his next move was going to be but he eventually worked it out and landed a good job with a local company but though the job was a good one the future was somewhat up in the air. The company was small and family owned, there was that question hanging in the air about what will happen when the owner deicides to retire or sell out. Well, Clay decided to keep his options open. 

     A recruiter he had worked with kept calling him with opportunities, the positions were all over the country. Some of the companies he would turn down out right while others he would talk to on a phone interview and although they all had their merits none of them tickled his fancy, as they say. Recently one company caught his attention. The recruiter came up with a company in Orlando and after a couple of phone interviews they invited him down for a face to face meeting.

     Clay had told me about this prospect a couple of weeks ago but I didn't get the feeling that it would go any further but it did. The next thing I know Clay has posted on Face Book that he is in Cocoa Beach, Florida. The interview turned into a firm offer, and a good one I might add, so Clay jumped on it.

     I have to admit that when Clay told me about the impending move I sort of choked up a little, I was even a little bit down for a while. Afterwards, I realized how my own parents must have felt when I left home, how Linda's parents must have felt when I took her away from them. I'm OK now, after all kids have been leaving home since time began, I even know some people who wish their kids would leave home. Clay is a good son and I love him dearly, he's smart and will be an asset to the new company. We have said our goodbyes now and yesterday he drove down to Orlando as his first day is Monday, I wish him well and can't wait to see him when he comes home for Christmas.

     On a good note, he is temporarily renting a place with three bedrooms and he will have time to check out all of the local fishing holes in time for a springtime fishing trip.